What could go wrong when you're alone?

We need a time to be alone. Either for rest, eating our favorite food, watching horror movies to trigger adrenalin, reading romance novel while cuddling in warm blanket, and so on.

Being alone doesn't mean you'll feel lonely. Being alone, sometimes, will clear your mind and make yourself at peace. You need to comfort yourself, right?

Stress could make you feel miserable. Lack of sleep would lead to unproductive day. Have a fight with someone could make you full of anger, egoist.

Being alone could be a healing time, for the heart that being hurt, for the scar that left open and untreat, and for those who's seeking for calmness mind.

It doesn't mean that the one who's suddenly become a loner is a person that left behind neither someone who would hate everyone around them.

Everything takes time. Everyone need a time.

A few second of silence between an argument could change how it's end. That gap of time gave both of them a space. A space to spare their mind and think what words would they say. A moment of silence could decrease the possibility of hurting each other. That's how magic the time is.

We sometimes think that avoided by someone means they hate or didn't need us. But that's not truly true tho. Maybe, in some situation, they just need a time to be alone.

To forgive, to forget, or to lose all the painful feeling.

In order to continue our life, we do need a time to be alone.

(sorry for unappropriate grammar and tenses)

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